We live, love, laugh, lose, trust and get hurt. But life is still so beautiful and worth living. Many times in our life we happen to face failures. Sometimes in the way of our career, relationships or friendships. We often get depressed or think to give up, but I would say life is so vast and it has much more to explore. Life doesn’t end here. You happen to confront unpredictable results in your career or you receive betrayal in your relationships.
Everyone of us is suffering
Sometimes you lose a person for a lifetime. We need to recall ourselves that there’s no one on this earth who hasn’t faced miseries and failures. Everyone is fighting an unseen battle. Life is unfair to everyone. You can’t compare your sufferings with anyone. If you’re lost in the way of your career may be the person sitting next to you has got betrayed in a relationship. We can’t define the true criteria of loss. We can’t categorize our sufferings as trivial or extreme.
Circumstances beyond our control
Every one’s tendency is different to bear any loss. You may get depressed by the thought of your career and may be relationships are everything to your friend. When we lose anything, whether it’s a brilliant opportunity to build up our careers or a relationship, we mourn over it. We complain our life for being unfair.
Hurdles are Not permanent
People often try to end up their life, but they forget the fact that the most important thing is life itself. These failures are just like a red traffic light. So, we need to stop, but it doesn’t mean that we’re going to stay there forever. We stop to make a better plan for the future or it makes us wiser in many ways. We forget that life is a bumpy road. It swerves and often gets clumsy, but these all things are the beauty of life. “I suppose there are a lot of reasons to be jaded or sarcastic or bitter in life, but I hang on to the reasons why life is beautiful”. All these challenges beautify our lives.
Difficulties don’t arise just too low down our morale they often occur to find out the real ones around us. Live alive is a lifetime challenge. We either win or learn a lesson. Relationships, friendships, death, birth, loss, emotions are just sweet and sour chunks of our lives. These could be essential, but life is not all about these things. We can’t be sad or happy all the time. We have to struggle to drag ourselves out of any trouble. Life is a beautiful struggle. Happiness is not guaranteed but yes, there is a possibility that keeps us moving towards our destination.
Never Lose Hope
Sometimes you may not feel what you want or where to go, but do remember one thing that you’re alive and you can change your miseries into happiness. For that reason you may not lose your hope and keep moving on because it doesn’t stop until we are alive. We have to take steps to change it into better ways.
“You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.”~ Albert Camus
- Arooj wasiq is a writer who is so passionate about her work. She is running her own blog, she writes about the mental stuff. She has been working as a teacher for over 4 years. She is masters in English Literature.