Do I know my worth? Am I familiar with my values? Do I know how capable I am? These are the few questions we should be asking ourselves on a daily basis. Motivation and self-love start with the recognition of your value and your worth. Not all dreams are meant to become reality, but many of them can. What do we do when we face failure for one time? We lose hope, lose confidence and start questioning ourselves. Asking yourself is great, but it does not mean to start getting demotivated. Knowing your worth is important for your self confidence. A few of the questions you should be asking yourself these are
- Where am I misleading?
- What am I doing wrong?
- Do I need to put more effort into it?
- What should I do to cope up with this situation? You should be asking yourself this instead of thinking that you are weak and not capable of doing anything.
Everyone faces their own battles with the feeling of helplessness, hopelessness and disappointment. There comes a time in life when you feel that there is no way to get out of this situation. Things start falling apart. But, you are not the only one who is suffering from this.
Everyone encounters this situation at some point. Sometimes life asks questions that are unexpected and impossible to answer. These questions are not for demotivating but for developing a better personality and building confidence.
Problems arise when we start comparing ourselves with others. We don’t understand that their struggles were different. May me we are more capable than them. But, what we do instead of learning a lesson we start losing hope. We are not in competition with anyone and no need to be better than others but to be better than what we were yesterday. We are our own competitors.
Accomplish Your Achievements
Think about what you have achieved in the past. Think about how better you are than before. You have already gone through a developing process. Everyone has done a lot of things in his life about which he should be proud. Accomplish your small achievements.
Believe In Yourself
No one will ever believe you if you do not believe in you. Your biggest strength is your spirit. Don’t lose it. Start something and do not leave it in between. Believe that you can do this, know that you will do this. Give yourself small positive reminders about your goals and knowing your worth.
If you are capable of thinking about it then, you are definitely capable of achieving it. Do not be affected by criticism and judgments. People judge everyone and everyone is criticized as well. You need to shut them up, not your inner spirit. Show them they are wrong. Leave everyone behind and keep going. This is your way to success. When you start seeing yourself from the eyes of others, you start losing your worth.
Knowing your worth is the biggest achievement and should be your first step towards your journey. Your experiences and difficulties make you strong and give you the power to fight the negativity. Take a deep breath, let everyone think and do not stop your growth and you have got it covered.
Also read this article Loving Yourself IS The True Freedom
- Arooj wasiq is a writer who is so passionate about her work. She is running her own blog, she writes about the mental stuff. She has been working as a teacher for over 4 years. She is masters in English Literature.